Neither, we hope to stalk on the road not taken, for we aren't satisfy with the choice that lead us today.
However, there's no IF in our life.
According to act 1:7:
He said to them:
"It is not for you to know the times or dates
the Father has set by his own authority."
Everthing is appropraite in its own times.
We cant conclude that obstacles that appear in our life is a curse, that stop us from receive the blessing from Lord father. Yet we shall always having faith, beholding his promise to us, the greatest gift of our life.
No more IF,
but IS.
life is a continuous process.
OPEN YOUR EYE BIG BIG,
to witness our LORD FATHER almigthy work.