或者，有一种talk,叫着pillow talk。
哪怕是guys talk，还是girls talk,一定是讲个不停的。
“你知道吗，阿黄跟他的女朋友分手了。”
“为什么，谁知道？”
“aiyoh，怎么收消息这么慢，你的antenna可以长一点吗？”
“听说是男的不要女的了。”
“不是拉，听讲是女的不要男的了。”
“aiyoh,男的。”
“你不要乱说，是女的啦。你听谁讲的？”
“阿兰跟我讲的……你又听谁讲？”
“也是阿兰跟我讲的。”
就是这样，一个事情，有很多种版本。
只是，却能够在一传十，十传百的情况下，过滤了又过滤。
然后，扭造了很多谣言。
然后，就是误会。
The damage of gossip :
A woman once spread some hot gossip about a local pastor.
What he had supposedly done become common knowledge around town. Then she found that what she had heard wasn't true.
She gallantly went to the pastor and asked for his forgiveness.
THe pastor forgave her,but then told her to take a pillow full of tiny feathers to a corner of the town, and in high winds, shake the feathers out.
Then he told her to try to pick up every feather.
He explained that the damage had already been done.
She had destroyed his good reputation, and trying to repair the damage was like trying to pick up feathers in high winds.
看见了吗？the lesson of gossip~
The bible says that there is life and death in the power of the tougue. ( Proverbs 18:21)
生与死都在舌头的权下；爱把弄这权柄的，必自食其果。
pray with the psalmist,
"Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips." (PSALM 141:3 )
耶和华啊！求祢看守我的口，把守我的嘴。”
Remember the old saying :
" He that gossips to you will gossip about you."
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